My Favorite things.

Here is a list of my Favorite things
1 - the color red 

2 - Ghost Town (band)
3 - Mastiffs  (Dog breed)
4 - O.C.D-ness
5 - Pacific Rim (Movie)
6 - Coffee
7- My Best Friend
8 - Being by my self or with one friend .
9  - Amazing Life ( Song by Britt Nicole)
10 - Red (The movie)
11 - Painting
12  - Drawing
13 - My Grandpa (R.I.P)
14 -  My cousin
15  - The Smell of Happy people
16  - Watching people sleep (creepy right?)
17 -  Knitting (yeah , I knit ...)
18 -  Cuddling with a pillow (TRY IT!!)
19 - Having paint all over my hands from painting (11)
20 - Seeing How Many people are looking at my blog
21 - Giving hugs to people who badly need them .
22 -  ATM Dubstep (not sure what it is but it's on my MP3)
23 - playing Nancy Drew with my sister(PC games)
24 - Making People Smile when the are about to cry
25 - Looking at  beautiful dresses
26 -  Steam Punk Outfits (AWESOMENESS!!!)
27 - Old Stone Houses
28 -  Pandas
29 -  Snakes
30 - Having Nightmares( i don't know why)

Dang that was hard ....
wow ..... heh ,, heh....i'm messed-up ... but.... " i like it like that" (song quote) if you know the song ... you're awesome !
                             Love you ,
                                     Bekca <3
 

The Hardest Thing Is To Believe ...

Mark 11:22, 24-26

New International Version (NIV)

22 “Have faith in God,” Jesus answered.  24 Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours. 25 And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.” [26] 

....

I have a Very Hard  time Believing in God .
I know that He is real , but believing that he is there for me at all times and that He is listening to my prayers when I pray so just so hard for me to believe right now ...

When I was 16 I  begged God almost every night to not let my parents get a divorce ,  but it still happened ... I lost my faith and I've noticed that I've going down hill since then ...  I stopped praying , stopped listening to any Pastor , started listening to wrong music , and stopped reading the Bible .

I... ... ... I'm almost at the bottom of the trench , there is a rope next to me so that I can climb back to the top .... but... do i take hold of it ? ..... or do i hit rock bottom and learn from all my mistakes that I have made and that I'm going ...? .... I don't know  what to do any more .

Every time I open the BIBLE I read something I was never taught to do. .... I slam the book shut , put it down , ... and the I won't look at it for weeks . For Example  - For as long as i can remember I was always taught to never ask anything from god . then about 4 weeks ago i read a verse similar to this ->

Isaiah 7:11 “Ask the Lord your God for a sign , whether in the deepest depths or in the highest heights.” <- after reading that I got so mad  at my parents and god .
Anger toward my parents for not telling me or showing me this
Anger towards God for not allowing me to find it in the first place .

Then about 5  months ago , I started talk to a friend , long story short now he's my best friend .  He has helped me more then any human has in a long time and I thank so much him for that . I've started to read the Bible more then once a month , i've noticed more of my horrible actions , and i've been praying more (slowly but surely) and more . 

As of right now I'm holding no to the rope . Now i just have to decide to climb up .  so i guess all i can do is put a verse at the end of this post ...

                      Love you , 

                             Bekca
Mark 11:22-25
22 And Jesus answering saith unto them, Have faith in God.
23 For verily I say unto you, That whosoever shall say unto this mountain, Be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea; and shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that those things which he saith shall come to pass; he shall have whatsoever he saith.
24 Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.
25 And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses

Acquaintances , Friends , or Best friends ... who knows ...?

As most of you  know .... I'm Home-schooled , mind you i'm not a homeschooler ... so..... i look like a kid who goes to  a public school . But for kids like me It's hard to make friends ..... Because we have to work to do it .... most teens think " Okay we've talked now we're friends" ..... no , for my kind ... it's not like that at all .... If we are going to be friends we need to know things about you .. like ..... you're favorite food , color,  and drink and just simply things that you like . so that we know if we could be friends 

Definition of Friend- a person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection . 

If we have more then 3 things in common than by all means lets be friends . but if we don't ..... well then ... i guess that we are acquaintances .  If you want to be best friends .... well then I need to know everything about you , like ....... what color your shirt is right now .... and ...... how often you take a shower .... and ...... what the last show was that you watched . Random weird stuff like that .... and if i know that stuff then i can start guessing what your going to do next . From example , right now it's 10:04 and i know (cause i know him this well) that my best friend is asleep ... most likely on his left-side  .... yeah .... Hahah! 

That is how well best friends should know each other, no just simply knowing who you are , but what you are . (in a weird voice) .....muahahahahahahhaha!
                                     

                                                            Love you people!!! 

                                                                 -Bekca <3 

PS.If you do end-up as acquaintances then be nice to one another , don't be enemies .  

                                           

Christmas ... GO AWAY !!!!!!

Hey guys !!!
So lately Life has been catching up to me . It's getting stressful to go to my dads on week ends , it's hard trying to keep a straight face when all i want to do is cry ,  Spiders like to crawl on my laptop when i'm on it ...So help me those spiders better be killed with a gun and C4!!! , And everything is changing . I know that it is how life goes ... but i don't like it , it's all happening to fast . one thing at a time .... please? ..... Christmas has been the horrible so far. We got a different christmas tree that doesn't even smell like christmas . And it's taller then 5'3" ... For as long as i can remember it's been a really short and fat tree ....  i don't like how fast things are changing . it's just all to much !!!!! I'm just happy that my best friend calms me down when i get to stressed and stuff ... :)


                          I love you guys so much !!!!
                                       - Bekca <3

Human-Octopus Hybrid ! :D

Hybrid

 It took me about 2 hours and 45 minute to paint :D i had a lot of fun doing it ! :D

I did these at my dads ! They didn't take me that long to draw them , maybe like 15 or 20 minutes ....Ii don't know

I only used colored pencils for this one 

I drew this one first 

Drawings..... i'm so bad at this ... but whatever .

Sorry that I can't rotate that one picture ... 

Crazy

Hey guys !!!
I think i'm done being sorry for not posting anything because my life is just getting to crazy for me to post stuff . so.......yeah ...... but ... i'm listening to "Tut tut child" right now ... They are awesome . i forgot about them for a long time but i found them again . AWESOME !
My Head-aches  have been getting worse so i listen to music like tut tut child to help it do away , the hard bass and all the awesomeness makes the head aches slowly go away and i like it :D so ... yep ... :D


          Love you guys ,
              Bekca <3

PS . sorry to cute this short ... i need to sleep .

My Best friend is awesome :D

Minecraft Video :D

Drawing

Hey guys !

I have been drawing but i kinda lost-ish my DSI ,which is what i take all of my pictures with , so yeah ....... sorry


                Bekca <3

Anime and Chibi :)

LADIES !!!!!!!!

-2 1/2 Cups of Sugar (Yes, just normal sugar)
-1 Cup of oil (I used Olive Oil and of course, I smell a little like Olive Oil. You can also use Canola, Vegetable, Avocado, Coconut or any fragranced body oil you have).
-5 Tablespoons of a citrus juice. Preferably fresh squeezed. (Key Lime can be used too)

Bath Time:
-Draw you a warm/hot bath.
-Soak for about five minutes.
-Shave one leg.
-Take a palm full of your homemade sugar scrub and scrub that leg and then rinse off.
-Shave your leg again. Yes, again.
-Take a palm full of sugar scrub and scrub your leg again.
-Repeat on your other leg.
-After your bath, dry off and then lotion your legs. 

Tada ! :D

1/4th Polish

It's amazing that poland runs in my family , i didn't know this till about 3 years ago , but i can't find anything about my family past my great great grandmother , her last name was  Borba , if you know anything about the family please email me at  blackpanda12345@gmail.com  , please i really want to know about my family history !  
                                                          Bekca <3
                   Ps, I want to know if i have family out there that i don't know about . please just email me!

Update On My Life

I'm so sorry that i haven't posted anything in a long time ! I have been so mest up lately that i didn't know what to say . so i guess here is a update on my life ------

Relationship -- Single , but crushing on a guy !

Family problems -- yes , but it's okay !

Pets -- Sadie is doing well !

Sisters -- They are great ,  i love them so much!

Drawing -- I have  drawn some but not as much as i would i to . sorry !

My bedroom -- It looks like I could put a dance floor in there . heheh!

Music -- I  love  " Klaypex " so much !!! Thanks to my best  friend ! :D

'Blackburner" is really cool too !!

My Birthday -- we haven't had it yet . My sisters , my mom , and my soon-to-be

Brother-in-law  are going to have one big Birthday :) it's going to be awesome ! :D

I think thats it :) haha ! I'm so lame ! Haha !

                                                        Bekca <3

                                   Ps , I love you people so much ! I hope you have a great day :)

"Hi Youtube! " -My cousins !!!

Darker Then Black (anime)

Hey Guys !
I've been watching " Darker then Black " . It's an anime show . It's so amazing !!!!!!!!! I give it a 10 out of 5 star rating ! 

Friends Are More Like People You Don't Know .

Hey guy !
As most of you have no clue I don't really have friends  . I have my so darn close cousin that nothing could ever happen that would pull us apart ,  my best friend who I've known since she was born  , and my sisters but that's it , because  I don't like being with people . we could know each other  very well but that dose not make us friends . For example this guy who I thought was my friend tried to kill my sister and I . .  not fun !  People lie and cheat their way in to being so-called  " friends" and most people don't know the difference . I do , I'm 17 and I do . Now , how much dose that say about my life ? that kinda says a lot .
definition of friends -

a person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or family relations.

Definition of a lie from

     1. A false statement deliberately presented as being true; a falsehood.

      2. Something meant to deceive or give a wrong impression.

Definition of a cheater

 

1. a person who acts dishonestly in order to gain an advantage
 

Please stop lie and cheating just to get what you want !!!!!!!!!!! Please ! It not only hurts who ever you are doing it to but you as well ! please just stop , confess if it make you fell better! as long as you stop ! .. . . - Bekca :(

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Creating a Website using Notepad

 This guy is my friend and he is awesome !!

Do you remember? by Katie Joy McGuire

I remember, do you?

Your childhood friends.

No, not your neighbors but

Don’t you remember when…?

You sat in an empty toy box

And you were a pirate at sea,

Or playing with stuffed animals

Having them over for tea?

Do you remember in bed at night,

Imagining you flew on a dragon’s wing!

Or when you first rode your bike?

Oh, what a wonderful thing!

Do you remember your childhood,

How sweet and innocent it was?

Remember how happy you were,

To get ice-cream just because?

Do you remember your firsts?

Your first pet or plane ride.

Your first day of school,

And when your pet died?

I remember, do you?

I wish I could go back

To those sunny days.

Now I’m older, there’s something I lack.

That care-free spirit left me.

Now that I understand

I don’t want to. And now I can never go back

To that childhood land

Adams Life

August 30, 2013 (LiveActionNews) - For nine months, Adam was carried in his biological mother’s womb. He was safe with her, until the day he was born. Shortly after his birth, in a hospital in India, Adam was abandoned. He had been born with severe physical deformities.

No one in his family wanted him. Not one of them opened their heart or home to him. He was a child whose life many in this United States of abundance would deem unworthy of living.

When doctors told Adam’s family that they could not just abandon their child, their response was quite frank. His family said they would kill him. His village said they would poison him. So Adam stayed in the hospital and waited for his true family. He didn’t have to wait long.

Within the same hospital as Adam was a young couple, married for just six months – Raja Paulraj, a psychiatrist at the hospital and Jessica Cooksey Paulraj, a nurse and nursing teacher. They heard about this abandoned baby, and they went to him.

The Paulrajs loved Adam upon first sight. Doctors told them that he wouldn’t live long, maybe only a few weeks. But the young couple adopted him anyway. As Jessica writes on her blog:

As we were reading thru Paul’s letter to Rome in chapter 8 we were confronted with our own adoption as His sons and daughters. And when Adam was abandoned at our hospital due to significant physical deformities, we were awakened to the reality of our own spiritual condition before our adoption and His extravagant, sacrificial Love that adopted and redeemed us.

Adam was diagnosed with Bartsocas-Papas, a rare condition that brings with it physical abnormalities. He was born without eyelids or a nose, with a severe cleft palate and lip, with major hand abnormalities, and with legs which were fused together. His brain, lungs and heart are healthy. Most people with this condition die in the womb or shortly after birth. There are only 24 known cases. Raja and Jessica were told to simply keep Adam comfortable.

But the couple reached out to their friends, and an email to a one such friend at UNC Hospitals in Chapel Hill brought about the miracle they were seeking. Within two months of his birth, Adam was in North Carolina having his first round of surgeries which included one to give him eyelids to prevent him from losing his sight, and one to fix his cleft lip.

Surgeries, however, are expensive. Yet within days, the Baby Adam Fund was established and over $140,000 was quickly raised to help Raja and Jessica provide Adam with the health care he needs. In fact, despite the poor prognosis Adam was given, he will turn two years old in a few weeks. He has also become a big brother.

Just this week, Adam had surgery to give him a palate. This brings about the hope of being able to eat and speak. In the future, Adam will have the use of prosthetic legs and hands. But even without those gifts, Adam – a child his own family saw as a curse – has love and joy. He is full of energy, he squabbles with his brother, and he is like any other little boy.

In an interview with their local ABC news channel, Raja says:

I just see Adam as someone so beautiful. Often we kind of look at the abnormal things, but we kind of miss the beautiful things that lie behind this abnormal, so-called, abnormal thing.

Jessica and Raja are ordinary people who followed God’s calling for them. They saw a child in need of love, of a home, of a family and they provided for him. In this act, the couple is the perfect example of a truly pro-life spirit. A spirit that holds all life as precious and worthy and beautiful.

Everyone is wanted by someone.

Adam will need many more surgeries, but since he is not yet a U.S. citizen, he does not have health insurance. To help Jessica and Raja continue to afford Adam’s care, you can donate to the Baby Adam Fund.

Share This Till Miley Reads It !!!

Dear Miley,

Last night I, as well as millions of Americans, sat in amazement as I watched your VMA performance. No, you are not the first artist to grind on a backup dancer (however you may be the first to grind on a teddy bear but who knows), sing about your life of partying and drug abuse, or to strip down to your chonies. It’s all been done before. So why is your performance evoking such media attention, anger, amusement, and general confusion? Well, I have yet to speak to the millions of viewers personally, but here are a few of my guesses.

1. Yes, we all know that you are NOT Hannah Montana and we are all aware that you are of legal age to make your own decisions and mistakes. I am sincerely sorry that at such a young age you were forced to adhere to the pressure of being a role model when no 12 year old can really comprehend what that even means. I am sorry that you became a media product and you had to remain marketable despite your growth and interest in finding yourself. You were forced to push your own dreams and desires aside in order to keep the money rolling in for everyone around you. I have never been a child star and I will not pretend to know what that is like. However, you’ve been on a constant quest to prove how very not Hannah Montana you are and after a while it gets old. I mean, look at Britney. She too wanted to prove that she was no longer a girl but not yet a woman so she just penned a nice, catchy ballad about it, recorded a music video of herself singing it over a mountain top and moved on. The point is, instead of parading your rebellion 24/7, try letting us into your world and your heart.

2. I know I mentioned that a 12 year old should never have to be a role model, but as you have been very clear, you are no longer 12. You are 20. Therefore, you now have the responsibility of being a role model. So when you sing about getting a line in the bathroom, getting high on Molly, shaking it like you’re at a strip club, and doing whatever you want, you are sending the wrong message to girls everywhere. You see, you are the exception to the general rule. When you do those things, you get media attention. You get paid for club appearances. You get checks in the mail for your iTunes downloads. But when our girls do that, they get pregnant. They get addicted to heroin and end up on the streets leaving their family and friends in constant fear and grief over them. They drop out of school. They get kicked out of college and lose their scholarships. So, they really do end up shaking it at a strip club in order to pay the rent for themselves and their deadbeat boyfriends who can’t hold a job because of their alcohol dependency. You see, your music paints a false picture of what reality is. Partying and using drugs doesn’t lead to number one hits and nights filled with champagne, limo service, paparazzi attention and Snoop Dogg (lion?) calling you his homie. It leads to disaster, poverty, heartache and unfortunately for some, death.

3. Watching you perform makes me sad. I don’t mean that in the passive-aggressive “I don’t like you so I’m going to call you pathetic to make you feel stupid” kind of way. It really makes me feel sad because you have one of the greatest voices in the music industry. You have talent beyond what you may even know and you just cannot sustain a long term career using sex and drugs as your only muse. I know that there is something deeper in that little heart of yours and that’s what the world wants to see.

So Miley, you will probably never read this because I think the most hits my blog has had in a day is 400 (and yes I felt cool), but this is my prayer for you. I pray that you stop dancing with Molly. I pray that if you insist on wearing nude colored shorts that you consider picking a pair that leaves more to the imagination. I pray that you really do find yourself the way you so desperately want to. I pray that you live a LONG life full of fulfilled dreams, adventures, and love. I pray that you find your way back home and rediscover the heart that got you to where you are. I really am rooting for you. All the best.

Birthday -

AHHH!!!
To day is my Birthday !!!!!!! I don't want it to be !!!  but  guess it's a good thing cause  16 was the worst year of my life ! no joke !
 Here is the picture my little sis posted on my wall , i love her so much ( my sister ,that is )
           

Fight The New Drug !

Ever wonder what it would be like to ask your friends or family a question and not be able to Google the answer right away? Sounds like the beginning of a very scary story. Most of us grew up with the Internet as a part of our lives; it’s hard to imagine even functioningwithout it. It is easily one of the greatest inventions of all time. It makes life easier and it makes communication instantaneous. Unfortunately, it also makes pornography affordable, accessible and anonymous.  Pornographers know this and they have some sly tricks up their sleeves, because more traffic—adults or children—means more money.

It’s difficult to pinpoint all the techniques used by the pornography industry, but here are some of the sneaky ways pornography targets you: 

1. MISSPELLED WORDS 

We all have moments when our thumbs get a little clumsy or our phone key pads grow smaller by the minute and as we search the Internet, we enter in a word that is spelled incorrectly. Porn industry techies use these human errors to their advantage. They have statistics on the most commonly misspelled words and/or faulty keystrokes and they pounce. We hit enter on a search where we have made a spelling error and BLAM-O, we are bombarded with porn. Why would they do that? If the industry is all about keeping the laws and protecting people from unwanted solicitation of porn, why would they target misspelled words? The answer seems almost like a no brainer; their goal is to inject porn into the lives of anyone, anywhere, and at any time. Make no mistake about it, though, you still have a choice in the matter. You can exit, delete, power down, sprint in the opposite direction, close your laptop, lock your phone screen, yell for help—whatever is right for you to get out of that situation, do it. 

2. STEALTH WEBSITES

What do we mean by stealth sites? We mean porn companies buy URLs or website address that closely resemble or are identical to websites for really popular companies. So that if by chance you think it’s a .org instead of a .com or you think it is spelled a different way, regardless of your age, you are taken to a site with sexually explicit content. 

3. TEASER IMAGES

All pornography has is illusion. It is a manipulated, calculated, and designed product. And why are products made? To be sold. They need customers so they use teaser images to sell their product. They use teasers to draw people to their sites. Most teasers contain sexually explicit material. The problem is Internet users aren’t always on porn sites or looking for porn when they see these teasers.

4. INNOCENT WORD SEARCHES  

This is where you are going to want to turn on your safe search. As we Google through life we gain knowledge—some trivial, some essential. We look up words we’ve never heard before, search for movie titles that we can’t think of, do research for that paper that is due tomorrow, all of it. Now that I’m thinking about it, it’s hard to imagine not using the internet or not having the answers to all of my questions at the click of a button.  Here is where we find the porn industry lurking yet, again. They take innocent words commonly searched for by people who aren’t necessarily looking for porn and buy advertising space and web pages to draw people to their sites. In these cases, younger people are likely targets because they might not be aware of what they are clicking on.

5. MOUSE TRAPPING

In this case odds are you were looking for something else entirely, so you are shocked when you realize you have landed on a porn site. Often under these circumstances you aren’t searching for porn so you want to get away from it as soon as possible. Each time you click on the exit button a new page and picture reloads, over and over again. Your mouse has literally been hijacked. More than likely in these cases, you have to shut your computer down completely to get out of the vicious trap.

6. USE OF CARTOON CHARACTERS 

This one is pretty clear cut; the porn industry uses cartoons engaged in explicit sex acts. What major group of people watches cartoons, again? Oh right, kids. 

The worst part about all of these practices isn’t the violating nature of their attempts for customers. No, it’s the blatant attempt for underage and innocent customers. It’s the targeting of people who aren’tLOOKING for porn. Ask yourself, why would the porn industry target young people? What do they have to gain?

It’s important to remember, you are smarter than any marketing attempt thrown at you by porn companies. Knowing the tricks they use, gives you power in your FIGHT against them.

Ever wonder what it w

ould be like to ask your 

" Twinkle-Twinkle little Star "

This is me  , my little sis' ,and my best friends when we were little !

Fur Wall

Hey Guys !
 Did I ever tell you that I want a fur wall ? Well I do, but my only problem is  that it's $111.92 . . .  that's a ton of money to spend on stuff that will have to come down in like one year  ! Now I'm all mad  cause I really wanted it so I could listen to my music really loudly , but oh well  I guess it one more thing I don't have to worry about :(

My B-day !

AAHHH!!!! guys !!!
So my birthday is in 4 days !!!!!  OH my gosh !!!! . .  i'm so old !!!!!  lol not really i'm still a kid. .  ish . 

Music blog

Hey guys !
My Music blog  already has had 51 views in past 4 hours thats more then i get on this blog in a week !
WOOT WOOT/ .  . . crap !  LOL !!!! here is a link incase you can't find it ( but i know you did ) ------------------   music and song lyrics -------------------------------------------------- Hope you guys like !!! 

More Blogs

Hey guys !
 I'm going to get another blog . I will post mainly song lyrics and new music ( like from sound cloud).
It's not my music mind you , it's other peoples i just want  the songs to get out there .

Sound Cloud

I got a sound cloud but i have no clue what to do with it . please give me some pointers ! 

Dark Red Ridding Hood

Red Ridding Hood Art

Little Red Ridding Hood

The story revolves around a girl called Little Red Riding Hood, after the red hooded cape/cloak (in Perrault's fairytale) or simple cap(in the Grimms' version called Little Red-Cap) she wears. The girl walks through the woods to deliver food to her sickly grandmother (grape juice and banana bread, or wine and cake depending on the translation). In the Grimms' version at least, she had the order from her mother to stay strictly on the path.

A mean wolf wants to eat the girl, and the food in the basket. He secretly stalks her behind trees and bushes and shrubs and patches of little grass and patches of tall grass. He approaches Little Red Riding Hood and she naïvely tells him where she is going. He suggests the girl pick some flowers, which she does. In the meantime, he goes to the grandmother's house and gains entry by pretending to be the girl. He swallows the grandmother whole, (in some stories, he locks her in the closet), and waits for the girl, disguised as the grandma.

When the girl arrives, she notices that her grandmother looks very strange. Little Red then says, "What a deep voice you have," ("The better to greet you with"), "Goodness, what big eyes you have," ("The better to see you with") "And what big hands you have!" ("The better to hug/grab you with"), and lastly, "What a big mouth you have," ("The better to eat you with!") at which point the wolf jumps out of bed, and swallows her up too. Then he falls fast asleep.

A lumberjack (with the Brothers Grimm, and always in German tradition, a hunter), however, comes to the rescue and with his axe cuts open the wolf, who had fallen asleep. Little Red Riding Hood and her grandmother emerge unharmed. They fill the wolf's body with heavy stones. The wolf awakens and tries to flee, but the stones cause him to collapse and die. (Sanitized versions of the story have the grandmother shut in the closet instead of eaten, and some have Little Red Riding Hood saved by the lumberjack as the wolf advances on her, rather than after she is eaten).

Here is a music link !

free mp3 downloads !-----> http://searchmp3.mobi/
I got a crap load of music from there !
hope you like !
                 Bekca :)

Porn Kills Love !

Fight The New Drug !

Too often pornography and love seem to count as even exchanges in our culture. It is time to take a closer look, and see things as they really are. Pornography is the antithesis of love; now a days, so many people are chasing after what they think love is from what they have seen in the movies, on TV, read in novels, and even from viewing pornography. We are not saying love can’t be spectacular and wonderful, what we are saying is the porn industry shouldn’t tell you what love feels like or what it looks like. You should determine that.

Pornography is…

• Fake, nothing about porn is real. Not only is it not real, it creates unrealistic sexual expectations.
• Selfish, it only cares about itself. It will leave you just as it found you, alone. As a consumer of pornography, you are only focused on your needs, your wants, and your time table. Pornography soon becomes preferred over human interaction.
• Degrading, it minimizes committed relationships, glorifies violence against women, perpetuates violence against women, and reduces the individual to their body parts without any other characteristics that make them a human being—personality, hopes, dreams, emotions, a life.
• Ugly. There is nothing glamorous about porn. It treats people as objects. That’s ugly.
• Demanding. Porn doesn’t care what hopes and goals you have. It demands everything from you, your time, your emotional capacity, your social life, your job, your family, everything.   

We, as human beings, are designed with the need to love, to feel love, and to share those feelings of love with another person. Pornography makes you think those needs are being met, but they really aren’t. Pornography will not and cannot love you back.

Love is…

• Real, sharing your time with another actual person, learning and growing together, that’s love. That’s real. If you feel it, you know it.
• Selfless. Love puts the needs of others above the needs of self. It wants what is best for the other person regardless of the sacrifice.

• Uplifting. The sun shines brighter, song lyrics suddenly make sense. It leaves you better than you were when it found you. Love allows you to be vulnerable and gives you the ability to be responsible to treat with care the vulnerabilities of another person.
• Beautiful. Some people might think, “Pornographic images are beautiful to me,” but there is nothing beautiful about that person wrapped up in bed with their laptop or cell phone. Two real individuals in a committed relationship, now that’s beautiful.  
• Giving. Love gives all it has without the thought of receiving anything in return.

It is important to remember that even in a society that is inundated with pornography and pornographic images, you can choose to rebel—you can fight for love. If it has already infiltrated your life, there is help. If you are tired of seeing so many people plagued by it, you can help. An addiction to pornography may have plagued you or someone you love, but it does not have to win. As long as you are fighting back, and rejecting its message, love wins.

Fight the New Drug invites you to fight for REAL LOVE and reject its hollow counterfeit. Talk to those around you about this issue. Don’t let society tell you that it’s too taboo to address. We can’t afford to continue as we have.

Resist the reaction of judging those who have struggled and, instead, offer them help in their fight. In battlefields, soldiers don’t look down with disgust on their comrades who are wounded. Why would we? Be encouraging. Learn all you can about the harmful effects of pornography so you are prepared and equipped in your fight against it. Improve love and connection in your personal relationships. Spend quality time with those around you instead of hiding behind your phones and devices. Technology is great, but don’t let it be a wedge between you and others. Talk. Listen. Love.

If you want to get involved in the fight, like us on Facebook. If you or someone you know is struggling with an addiction to pornography, you can get help.





To learn more go to http://www.fightthenewdrug.org/ 

Certain Doctor Who Phrases and how Olive Garden Customers React: An Experiment Done by a Server

As a server, I did an experiment tonight, I was saying basically only Doctor Who quotes to my tables, some understood, others did not. These are a few of the phrases and people’s reactions:



To read the rest of the vary true  story  click on this link >  Dr. Who ? 

Chainsaw

Cray !

 

 

Go Listen to Cray Button     , it's Amazing !!!!! 

My New-ish Room

Hey Guys !
     

My big sister moved out of the house about a year ago so her room was empty-ish , she left her bed and bed frame , so then about a month ago I  moved into her room :D so now i have 4 new walls to hang pictures on !  YAY! but i don't know if i want to cause . .  oh , who am i kidding ! my drawings are going all over my walls ! :D lol ! 

                                                    LOVE

                                                        Bekca :)

Paint it up !

http://society6.com/DextraHoffman/Red-Riding-Hood-hk6_Print

Can't get the picture for this one to come up , sorry ! 

I want to paint one of these for my room but I can't decide which 

one ! 

Anime Pictures :)

Anime - my sister

Anime - My sister

Anime Elf Head

Anime Music



Steampunk Anime

Anime Girl

Help Me !

Okays !
There are two huge spiders outside my front door fitting . . 
it's fun to watch but I'm afraid one or both will come after me !

 ABLRGUBELLLL!


                       -Bekca D: