Share This Till Miley Reads It !!!

Dear Miley,

Last night I, as well as millions of Americans, sat in amazement as I watched your VMA performance. No, you are not the first artist to grind on a backup dancer (however you may be the first to grind on a teddy bear but who knows), sing about your life of partying and drug abuse, or to strip down to your chonies. It’s all been done before. So why is your performance evoking such media attention, anger, amusement, and general confusion? Well, I have yet to speak to the millions of viewers personally, but here are a few of my guesses.

1. Yes, we all know that you are NOT Hannah Montana and we are all aware that you are of legal age to make your own decisions and mistakes. I am sincerely sorry that at such a young age you were forced to adhere to the pressure of being a role model when no 12 year old can really comprehend what that even means. I am sorry that you became a media product and you had to remain marketable despite your growth and interest in finding yourself. You were forced to push your own dreams and desires aside in order to keep the money rolling in for everyone around you. I have never been a child star and I will not pretend to know what that is like. However, you’ve been on a constant quest to prove how very not Hannah Montana you are and after a while it gets old. I mean, look at Britney. She too wanted to prove that she was no longer a girl but not yet a woman so she just penned a nice, catchy ballad about it, recorded a music video of herself singing it over a mountain top and moved on. The point is, instead of parading your rebellion 24/7, try letting us into your world and your heart.

2. I know I mentioned that a 12 year old should never have to be a role model, but as you have been very clear, you are no longer 12. You are 20. Therefore, you now have the responsibility of being a role model. So when you sing about getting a line in the bathroom, getting high on Molly, shaking it like you’re at a strip club, and doing whatever you want, you are sending the wrong message to girls everywhere. You see, you are the exception to the general rule. When you do those things, you get media attention. You get paid for club appearances. You get checks in the mail for your iTunes downloads. But when our girls do that, they get pregnant. They get addicted to heroin and end up on the streets leaving their family and friends in constant fear and grief over them. They drop out of school. They get kicked out of college and lose their scholarships. So, they really do end up shaking it at a strip club in order to pay the rent for themselves and their deadbeat boyfriends who can’t hold a job because of their alcohol dependency. You see, your music paints a false picture of what reality is. Partying and using drugs doesn’t lead to number one hits and nights filled with champagne, limo service, paparazzi attention and Snoop Dogg (lion?) calling you his homie. It leads to disaster, poverty, heartache and unfortunately for some, death.

3. Watching you perform makes me sad. I don’t mean that in the passive-aggressive “I don’t like you so I’m going to call you pathetic to make you feel stupid” kind of way. It really makes me feel sad because you have one of the greatest voices in the music industry. You have talent beyond what you may even know and you just cannot sustain a long term career using sex and drugs as your only muse. I know that there is something deeper in that little heart of yours and that’s what the world wants to see.

So Miley, you will probably never read this because I think the most hits my blog has had in a day is 400 (and yes I felt cool), but this is my prayer for you. I pray that you stop dancing with Molly. I pray that if you insist on wearing nude colored shorts that you consider picking a pair that leaves more to the imagination. I pray that you really do find yourself the way you so desperately want to. I pray that you live a LONG life full of fulfilled dreams, adventures, and love. I pray that you find your way back home and rediscover the heart that got you to where you are. I really am rooting for you. All the best.

Birthday -

AHHH!!!
To day is my Birthday !!!!!!! I don't want it to be !!!  but  guess it's a good thing cause  16 was the worst year of my life ! no joke !
 Here is the picture my little sis posted on my wall , i love her so much ( my sister ,that is )
           

Fight The New Drug !

Ever wonder what it would be like to ask your friends or family a question and not be able to Google the answer right away? Sounds like the beginning of a very scary story. Most of us grew up with the Internet as a part of our lives; it’s hard to imagine even functioningwithout it. It is easily one of the greatest inventions of all time. It makes life easier and it makes communication instantaneous. Unfortunately, it also makes pornography affordable, accessible and anonymous.  Pornographers know this and they have some sly tricks up their sleeves, because more traffic—adults or children—means more money.

It’s difficult to pinpoint all the techniques used by the pornography industry, but here are some of the sneaky ways pornography targets you: 

1. MISSPELLED WORDS 

We all have moments when our thumbs get a little clumsy or our phone key pads grow smaller by the minute and as we search the Internet, we enter in a word that is spelled incorrectly. Porn industry techies use these human errors to their advantage. They have statistics on the most commonly misspelled words and/or faulty keystrokes and they pounce. We hit enter on a search where we have made a spelling error and BLAM-O, we are bombarded with porn. Why would they do that? If the industry is all about keeping the laws and protecting people from unwanted solicitation of porn, why would they target misspelled words? The answer seems almost like a no brainer; their goal is to inject porn into the lives of anyone, anywhere, and at any time. Make no mistake about it, though, you still have a choice in the matter. You can exit, delete, power down, sprint in the opposite direction, close your laptop, lock your phone screen, yell for help—whatever is right for you to get out of that situation, do it. 

2. STEALTH WEBSITES

What do we mean by stealth sites? We mean porn companies buy URLs or website address that closely resemble or are identical to websites for really popular companies. So that if by chance you think it’s a .org instead of a .com or you think it is spelled a different way, regardless of your age, you are taken to a site with sexually explicit content. 

3. TEASER IMAGES

All pornography has is illusion. It is a manipulated, calculated, and designed product. And why are products made? To be sold. They need customers so they use teaser images to sell their product. They use teasers to draw people to their sites. Most teasers contain sexually explicit material. The problem is Internet users aren’t always on porn sites or looking for porn when they see these teasers.

4. INNOCENT WORD SEARCHES  

This is where you are going to want to turn on your safe search. As we Google through life we gain knowledge—some trivial, some essential. We look up words we’ve never heard before, search for movie titles that we can’t think of, do research for that paper that is due tomorrow, all of it. Now that I’m thinking about it, it’s hard to imagine not using the internet or not having the answers to all of my questions at the click of a button.  Here is where we find the porn industry lurking yet, again. They take innocent words commonly searched for by people who aren’t necessarily looking for porn and buy advertising space and web pages to draw people to their sites. In these cases, younger people are likely targets because they might not be aware of what they are clicking on.

5. MOUSE TRAPPING

In this case odds are you were looking for something else entirely, so you are shocked when you realize you have landed on a porn site. Often under these circumstances you aren’t searching for porn so you want to get away from it as soon as possible. Each time you click on the exit button a new page and picture reloads, over and over again. Your mouse has literally been hijacked. More than likely in these cases, you have to shut your computer down completely to get out of the vicious trap.

6. USE OF CARTOON CHARACTERS 

This one is pretty clear cut; the porn industry uses cartoons engaged in explicit sex acts. What major group of people watches cartoons, again? Oh right, kids. 

The worst part about all of these practices isn’t the violating nature of their attempts for customers. No, it’s the blatant attempt for underage and innocent customers. It’s the targeting of people who aren’tLOOKING for porn. Ask yourself, why would the porn industry target young people? What do they have to gain?

It’s important to remember, you are smarter than any marketing attempt thrown at you by porn companies. Knowing the tricks they use, gives you power in your FIGHT against them.

Ever wonder what it w

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" Twinkle-Twinkle little Star "

This is me  , my little sis' ,and my best friends when we were little !

Fur Wall

Hey Guys !
 Did I ever tell you that I want a fur wall ? Well I do, but my only problem is  that it's $111.92 . . .  that's a ton of money to spend on stuff that will have to come down in like one year  ! Now I'm all mad  cause I really wanted it so I could listen to my music really loudly , but oh well  I guess it one more thing I don't have to worry about :(

My B-day !

AAHHH!!!! guys !!!
So my birthday is in 4 days !!!!!  OH my gosh !!!! . .  i'm so old !!!!!  lol not really i'm still a kid. .  ish . 

Music blog

Hey guys !
My Music blog  already has had 51 views in past 4 hours thats more then i get on this blog in a week !
WOOT WOOT/ .  . . crap !  LOL !!!! here is a link incase you can't find it ( but i know you did ) ------------------   music and song lyrics -------------------------------------------------- Hope you guys like !!! 

More Blogs

Hey guys !
 I'm going to get another blog . I will post mainly song lyrics and new music ( like from sound cloud).
It's not my music mind you , it's other peoples i just want  the songs to get out there .

Sound Cloud

I got a sound cloud but i have no clue what to do with it . please give me some pointers ! 

Dark Red Ridding Hood

Red Ridding Hood Art

Little Red Ridding Hood

The story revolves around a girl called Little Red Riding Hood, after the red hooded cape/cloak (in Perrault's fairytale) or simple cap(in the Grimms' version called Little Red-Cap) she wears. The girl walks through the woods to deliver food to her sickly grandmother (grape juice and banana bread, or wine and cake depending on the translation). In the Grimms' version at least, she had the order from her mother to stay strictly on the path.

A mean wolf wants to eat the girl, and the food in the basket. He secretly stalks her behind trees and bushes and shrubs and patches of little grass and patches of tall grass. He approaches Little Red Riding Hood and she naïvely tells him where she is going. He suggests the girl pick some flowers, which she does. In the meantime, he goes to the grandmother's house and gains entry by pretending to be the girl. He swallows the grandmother whole, (in some stories, he locks her in the closet), and waits for the girl, disguised as the grandma.

When the girl arrives, she notices that her grandmother looks very strange. Little Red then says, "What a deep voice you have," ("The better to greet you with"), "Goodness, what big eyes you have," ("The better to see you with") "And what big hands you have!" ("The better to hug/grab you with"), and lastly, "What a big mouth you have," ("The better to eat you with!") at which point the wolf jumps out of bed, and swallows her up too. Then he falls fast asleep.

A lumberjack (with the Brothers Grimm, and always in German tradition, a hunter), however, comes to the rescue and with his axe cuts open the wolf, who had fallen asleep. Little Red Riding Hood and her grandmother emerge unharmed. They fill the wolf's body with heavy stones. The wolf awakens and tries to flee, but the stones cause him to collapse and die. (Sanitized versions of the story have the grandmother shut in the closet instead of eaten, and some have Little Red Riding Hood saved by the lumberjack as the wolf advances on her, rather than after she is eaten).

Here is a music link !

free mp3 downloads !-----> http://searchmp3.mobi/
I got a crap load of music from there !
hope you like !
                 Bekca :)

Porn Kills Love !

Fight The New Drug !

Too often pornography and love seem to count as even exchanges in our culture. It is time to take a closer look, and see things as they really are. Pornography is the antithesis of love; now a days, so many people are chasing after what they think love is from what they have seen in the movies, on TV, read in novels, and even from viewing pornography. We are not saying love can’t be spectacular and wonderful, what we are saying is the porn industry shouldn’t tell you what love feels like or what it looks like. You should determine that.

Pornography is…

• Fake, nothing about porn is real. Not only is it not real, it creates unrealistic sexual expectations.
• Selfish, it only cares about itself. It will leave you just as it found you, alone. As a consumer of pornography, you are only focused on your needs, your wants, and your time table. Pornography soon becomes preferred over human interaction.
• Degrading, it minimizes committed relationships, glorifies violence against women, perpetuates violence against women, and reduces the individual to their body parts without any other characteristics that make them a human being—personality, hopes, dreams, emotions, a life.
• Ugly. There is nothing glamorous about porn. It treats people as objects. That’s ugly.
• Demanding. Porn doesn’t care what hopes and goals you have. It demands everything from you, your time, your emotional capacity, your social life, your job, your family, everything.   

We, as human beings, are designed with the need to love, to feel love, and to share those feelings of love with another person. Pornography makes you think those needs are being met, but they really aren’t. Pornography will not and cannot love you back.

Love is…

• Real, sharing your time with another actual person, learning and growing together, that’s love. That’s real. If you feel it, you know it.
• Selfless. Love puts the needs of others above the needs of self. It wants what is best for the other person regardless of the sacrifice.

• Uplifting. The sun shines brighter, song lyrics suddenly make sense. It leaves you better than you were when it found you. Love allows you to be vulnerable and gives you the ability to be responsible to treat with care the vulnerabilities of another person.
• Beautiful. Some people might think, “Pornographic images are beautiful to me,” but there is nothing beautiful about that person wrapped up in bed with their laptop or cell phone. Two real individuals in a committed relationship, now that’s beautiful.  
• Giving. Love gives all it has without the thought of receiving anything in return.

It is important to remember that even in a society that is inundated with pornography and pornographic images, you can choose to rebel—you can fight for love. If it has already infiltrated your life, there is help. If you are tired of seeing so many people plagued by it, you can help. An addiction to pornography may have plagued you or someone you love, but it does not have to win. As long as you are fighting back, and rejecting its message, love wins.

Fight the New Drug invites you to fight for REAL LOVE and reject its hollow counterfeit. Talk to those around you about this issue. Don’t let society tell you that it’s too taboo to address. We can’t afford to continue as we have.

Resist the reaction of judging those who have struggled and, instead, offer them help in their fight. In battlefields, soldiers don’t look down with disgust on their comrades who are wounded. Why would we? Be encouraging. Learn all you can about the harmful effects of pornography so you are prepared and equipped in your fight against it. Improve love and connection in your personal relationships. Spend quality time with those around you instead of hiding behind your phones and devices. Technology is great, but don’t let it be a wedge between you and others. Talk. Listen. Love.

If you want to get involved in the fight, like us on Facebook. If you or someone you know is struggling with an addiction to pornography, you can get help.





To learn more go to http://www.fightthenewdrug.org/ 

Certain Doctor Who Phrases and how Olive Garden Customers React: An Experiment Done by a Server

As a server, I did an experiment tonight, I was saying basically only Doctor Who quotes to my tables, some understood, others did not. These are a few of the phrases and people’s reactions:



To read the rest of the vary true  story  click on this link >  Dr. Who ? 

Chainsaw

Cray !

 

 

Go Listen to Cray Button     , it's Amazing !!!!! 

My New-ish Room

Hey Guys !
     

My big sister moved out of the house about a year ago so her room was empty-ish , she left her bed and bed frame , so then about a month ago I  moved into her room :D so now i have 4 new walls to hang pictures on !  YAY! but i don't know if i want to cause . .  oh , who am i kidding ! my drawings are going all over my walls ! :D lol ! 

                                                    LOVE

                                                        Bekca :)

Paint it up !

http://society6.com/DextraHoffman/Red-Riding-Hood-hk6_Print

Can't get the picture for this one to come up , sorry ! 

I want to paint one of these for my room but I can't decide which 

one ! 

Anime Pictures :)

Anime - my sister

Anime - My sister

Anime Elf Head

Anime Music



Steampunk Anime

Anime Girl

Help Me !

Okays !
There are two huge spiders outside my front door fitting . . 
it's fun to watch but I'm afraid one or both will come after me !

 ABLRGUBELLLL!


                       -Bekca D: