Oh yah know

So lately I've bee. Having a hard time figuring out who i am in my marriage.
Im the wife but I've also had to make a lot of the choices. My husband donst think that simply because whenever a choices has to be made he asks if this or that is okay. So then i feel as if I'm the one messing everything up. Oh we don't have money for this? Well its my fault because i made the choices on this and this. Its getting to be really hard. I would love to say that i've been praying a lot on this subject but this is the one subject i avoid completely. It's embracing to beg for help on something like this. Choices have to be made, i get that. But when i start to feel like I'm the only on making them? Not okay. This is supposed to be a group effort. My husband and i have talked about it more than once but thing seems to change. I dont know where to go from here besides to ask and or beg god for help on this matter. I know that its what im supposed to do but then we have already had this conversation something should have changed right then and there.

For better or worse. For rich or for poorer.

      Love,
             Bekca<3